The True Meaning Of Submission

From a young age, I recognized the magnetic pull of domination and control. I remember being enthralled by imagery of bondage, gags, and scenes of discipline even as a child, long before I had words to describe what I felt. By my teenage years, the path was clear: I was born to lead, to dominate, to subdue those destined to serve.

To me, the world is divided in two types of men: Alphas like me, who command and train, and the betas born to serve and worship. I embrace my role without hesitation, and I expect my subs to do the same—knowing and fulfilling their place with devotion and pride.

Today, however, in a digital age dominated by fleeting visuals and explicit content, the essence of BDSM risks being misunderstood or diluted. And one of the most distorted concepts out there is that of submission.

Inherited Clichés

Scroll through social media or skim the countless porntainment sites, and you’ll quickly see how submission is often portrayed: a body submitting to another body, usually through rough, primal sex. In this shallow view, submission is indistinguishable from being a bottom—a passive, sexual role.

The focus on the physical is pervasive. How tall, muscled, or endowed the Dominant is becomes the measure of power, while the sub is depicted as physically weaker, smaller, or “lesser.” In the gay world, this often mirrors straight stereotypes: the Dominant as the towering alpha male and the submissive as the frail counterpart. These clichéd dynamics echo outdated ideas about strength and inferiority, rooted in the patriarchal binary where men dominate women.

I won’t deny that physicality plays a role. I train 5-6 days a week, and my muscled body is an extension of my dominance. Yes, I enjoy overpowering my subs physically, feeling their resistance melt under my strength. But to reduce submission to mere physicality is to misunderstand its essence entirely.

The True Meaning Of Submission

A true submissive is not just a hole searching for a dick. Submission—and especially slavery—isn’t about muscles or sex alone. It’s about something much deeper: a consensual exchange of power between individuals.

A true submissive recognizes his place in the natural order of things. He understands that he was born to serve, that his deepest fulfillment lies in surrendering to an Alpha. This isn’t a weakness—it’s an instinct, a primal drive. His submission is a gift, offered willingly, and the depth of his surrender depends on how far he’s ready to go—or how far he’s willing to be taken.

Submission transcends sexual service. Yes, being used for sex is common, but it’s just the beginning. True submission can permeate every corner of life: from punishment and objectification to chastity, domestic service, and even behavioral control. A submissive gives up not just his body but his autonomy—allowing his master to dictate how he acts, dresses, thinks, and feels.

And in this surrender, there is freedom. Freedom from choice, freedom from doubt, freedom from the weight of control. A slave doesn’t lose himself; he finds his purpose. He puts his life in the hands of a superior, knowing he will be used, abused, and reshaped into something greater.

Training and Trust

Not every submissive craves this depth of control, and that’s okay. Some are content with serving in the bedroom but maintaining their autonomy outside of it. Others might seek control in specific areas, like domestic service, but draw the line at sexual use.

But for the true submissive—the one destined to become a slave—this isn’t enough. He craves totality. His place in the world isn’t fleeting or situational; it’s constant, primal, and undeniable. And often, he has felt this need from an early age, even if he didn’t fully understand it.

Training a submissive to this point is no small task. It’s not as simple as fucking someone rough and calling it domination. A good Dominant understands the responsibility inherent in the gift of submission. A sub isn’t a disposable plaything; he’s a being to be molded, reprogrammed, and trained. But training isn’t just about control—it’s about protection, guidance, and leadership. A master doesn’t simply break a slave; he rebuilds him into something better.

How far do you want to go?

As a submissive, this is the question you must ask yourself: What are your needs, your cravings, your instincts? Are you ready to face them, to embrace them, to explore how far they’ll take you?

Once you understand your needs, you must also recognize that true fulfillment comes from aligning them with the desires of the Alpha Male. Your purpose is to serve Him, and in doing so, your own needs are not erased—they are fulfilled in your devotion and obedience to Him.

There’s no right or wrong answer to that initial question, and there’s no fixed timeline. Your desires will evolve, your boundaries may shift, and the right Dominant will respect this. What matters is communication. An experienced Dominant knows how to create trust, to guide an inexperienced sub toward understanding his needs without fear or shame.

You are an animal. You have instincts, drives, and hungers. Don’t let the judgments of others—or your own inner doubts—diminish them. What you feel is valid, natural, and uniquely yours.

A good Dominant will hunt you, claim you, and shape you into His. But ultimately, the decision lies with you. It would never work otherwise. Who will you trust to take you to the depths you crave?